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{November 27, 2012}   How To… Legally

Great title for a book. Now someone needs to write it and let us know how to do things legally. Like knock some sense into someone, or literally push someone out of your life, without the above being labeled as assault. There has to be a loophole somewhere, right? Well, until then I guess I need to figure out how to be a big girl and use my words. My problem is that I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings or make them feel bad about themselves, so I let them use me and hurt me. Then it goes too far, I get in too deep and I can’t find a way out to save my life. I’m already hurt and the angry side of me says to hurt the aggressor worse than they hurt me, but then there’s that little insecure piece of me that says not to burn bridges, to put my big girl panties on and deal with it. Are you following me on this?

Anyway… I need to figure out how to grow a back bone and tell this guy to leave me alone because I’m not interested, nor will I ever be interested, in him and I want to do it in a way that saves both of us face. How to???

Here’s a good “how to?” question: How do you be friends with a guy and stay friends with him, without him wanting more?



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